Filipino weddings are an impressive fusion of modern and historic customs. Traditionally, these cultural weddings are a celebration of two families coming together rather than just the two individuals. The strong family influence, alluring attire like the Barong and Filipiniana, and traditional Tinikling folk dance are just a few unique Filipino wedding customs.
Exactly 13 Arras, or coins, are carried in a pouch and brought to the altar by the coin sponsors. The Arras are then blessed for the groom to gift his bride as he promises the welfare of her and their future family. Traditionally, the promise is made by the groom, however, today’s couples are more mutually supportive than ever before. The coins are an emblem of their future children and before the church, the bride and groom promise their care and love.
Through the Catholic veil ceremony, two individuals are bonded and recognized as one. The veil sponsors drape one side of a white veil over the bride’s head and the other side over the groom’s shoulder as a symbol of unity. This also represents a wish for good health and protection during their life as husband and wife.
Similar to The Veil Ceremony, the Yugal or infinity shaped cord is incorporated as a representation of the couple’s bond and union. Their sponsors will place the Yugal on top of the veil as the couple receives their blessing.
This is the final ritual symbolizing the bonding of two individuals and in Filipino culture, two families. The two outer candles are a representation of their individual lives before the wedding day. The candles exemplify all that the bride and groom are from their past experiences and represent each individual family. Together, the bride and groom will light the unity candle, blow out the single candles, and figuratively extinguish their past.
Just like many other cultures, Filipino wedding receptions are dedicated to celebrating the new Mr. and Mrs. Family and friends join the newlyweds for a night of emotional speeches, delicious food, and infinite memories.
What is a Filipino wedding without Filipino food? Although there is no set menu for Filipino weddings, selecting a Filipino caterer would be a treat for wedding guests. Lechon, Longganisa, and Kaldereta are just a few options for a tasty dinner.
The Money Dance is also known as The Dollar Dance or The Apron Dance. No matter what you choose to call it, this tradition is a fun one that many cultures choose to include during their reception. The DJ will ask the men and women to line up in separate lines, grab a pin and wait their turn to dance with the bride and/or groom. The money received during the dances is perceived as a sign of good fortune, while also financial assistance as they begin their journey as husband and wife.
The rich Filipino heritage includes a unique collection of classic dances that pay tribute to Filipino history. It is common to include these traditional dance performances during dinner or at some point throughout the reception. Some of the folk dances include The Itik-Itik, The Sayaw sa Bangko and The Pantomina.